Get to know you questions
32 get-to-know-you questions, each with four answer options — for a first date, a new group of friends, or an evening for two.
The hardest get-to-know-you question is the first one. “What do you do for work” rarely goes anywhere, “what is your greatest fear” is too much to open with. These sit in between — each has four answer options to hold on to. In the game “Do You Know Me?” you answer them about yourself first, then guess the other person’s answers.
32 questions with four answer options
Each of you answers about yourself first — then you guess what the other one picked.
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1. What does a perfect weekend morning look like for you?
- Sleeping in
- Breakfast in bed
- Up early for fresh air
- Exercise first thing
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2. What do you do on your lunch break?
- Get some fresh air
- Keep working at the desk
- Eat with others
- A quick rest
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3. Which nature experience will you never forget?
- Sunrise on a mountain
- A storm at sea
- A clear starry sky
- An animal up close
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4. What worries you most when you think about the future?
- Being alone
- Tight finances
- Boredom
- Not achieving anything
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5. What's the first sign of spring for you?
- Birds singing
- First blossoms
- Longer evening light
- Windows open again
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6. How would you spend an active Sunday?
- A hike in the woods
- A bike ride
- The swimming pool
- A long walk downtown
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7. How do you feel about secondhand clothes?
- Always first choice
- Now and then
- Only for vintage finds
- Prefers everything new
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8. How often do you check the weather forecast?
- Several times a day
- Once in the morning
- Only before outings
- Almost never
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9. What costume would you pick for a party?
- A DIY creation
- A classic costume
- Something goofy
- Just a hat
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10. What do you do on the first warm day of the year?
- Head straight to the pool
- Set up the balcony
- Go get ice cream
- Stay inside a bit longer
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11. How do you dance when no one's watching?
- Wild and full-on
- Just head-nodding
- Like it's a stage show
- A spoon as a microphone
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12. What do you wear at home on a day off?
- Sweatpants
- Totally normal clothes
- Pajamas till noon
- Comfy loungewear
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13. What trait in other people annoys you most?
- Being late
- Interrupting others
- Constant complaining
- Showing off
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14. Where are you most likely the driving force in a group?
- Finding a time to meet
- Coming up with ideas
- Keeping the vibe up
- Splitting the bill
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15. What matters most to you on an anniversary?
- A nice meal out
- A small gift
- A day trip
- Just remembering the day
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16. How much do you spend on a birthday gift?
- Under $20
- $20 to $50
- $50 to $100
- Over $100
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17. How do you handle it when you get jealous?
- Talk about it openly
- Go quiet at first
- Laugh it off
- Almost never happens
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18. How patient are you in a long line?
- Totally relaxed
- Phone comes out
- Constantly checks the time
- Walks away
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19. How do you work best on a big task?
- Completely alone
- In a pair
- In a big team
- With clear instructions
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20. How do you spend an evening home alone?
- In front of a screen
- With a book
- On the phone
- Tidying up
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21. Which everyday number do you keep the closest eye on?
- Bank balance
- Steps per day
- The time
- How much fuel is left
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22. What was your first hobby as a kid?
- Soccer
- Painting
- An instrument
- Reading
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23. How many cushions and blankets do you need on the sofa?
- None at all
- One blanket
- Two or three pieces
- An entire pile
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24. How active are you in the group chat?
- Talks the most
- Just reads along
- Mostly sends photos
- Muted the chat
Turn them into a duel
Reading them out always works. It gets better when you answer at the same time and end up with a score: QuizYou mixes these questions with nine other games into a match of about ten minutes. Two devices, one code, no account.
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